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Trusted Family Law Attorneys in Tulsa, OK
At The Alexander Law Firm, we bring over four decades of dedicated legal expertise to families navigating complex legal challenges. Founded in 1980, our practice has been built on a foundation of integrity, compassion, and unwavering advocacy. With admissions to both Oklahoma and Texas bars, we specialize in family law matters including divorce, child custody, paternity, and probate, serving clients with personalized strategies tailored to their unique circumstances. Recognized by the Oklahoma Bar Association as Family Law Mediators of the Year and honored with the prestigious Hood Corbitt Award, our team combines deep legal knowledge with a commitment to minimizing conflict and achieving equitable outcomes.

We prioritize client education and empowerment, offering clear guidance through emotionally charged situations while maintaining the highest standards of professional ethics. Our AV Preeminent Martindale-Hubbell rating reflects our peers' recognition of our legal acumen and dedication to client service.
Services
Family Law Child Custody Divorce Probate Guardianships Asset Division Paternity
Details
  • Year established: 1980
Highlights and features
  • 44 years of specialized family law experience
  • Personalized legal strategies for complex cases
  • Award-winning mediation and dispute resolution
  • AV Preeminent rated for legal excellence
  • Deep understanding of Tulsa County legal systems
Associations and certifications
  • Hood Corbitt Family Law Award
  • Oklahoma Bar Association Family Law Mediator of the Year
  • AV Preeminent Peer Review Rated by Martindale-Hubbell
What people say
Knowledge and professionalism Compassionate approach Excellent legal guidance Achieved favorable outcomes Dedicated client support
Services
Family Law
Our comprehensive family law practice addresses complex legal matters including divorce proceedings, child custody disputes, and paternity determinations. With 44 years of specialized experience, we provide strategic representation that prioritizes clients' familial relationships while navigating Oklahoma's legal frameworks. Our approach emphasizes conflict resolution through mediation while maintaining readiness for courtroom advocacy when necessary.
Child Custody
We specialize in creating custody arrangements that serve children's best interests while protecting parental rights. Our practice addresses temporary and permanent custody determinations, visitation rights, and modification of existing orders. Through compassionate counsel, we help clients navigate emotional custody disputes while maintaining focus on long-term family stability and compliance with Oklahoma child welfare statutes.
Probate
Our probate services guide executors through estate administration processes including asset inventory, debt settlement, and property distribution. We coordinate with financial professionals to ensure accurate valuation and liquidation of assets while maintaining compliance with Oklahoma probate codes. Our team provides strategic support for contested probate matters and estate-related litigation.
Divorce
We handle all aspects of divorce proceedings including asset division, spousal support, and child-related matters. Our practice focuses on minimizing adversarial conflict through negotiation while vigorously protecting clients' interests when litigation becomes necessary. With deep familiarity of Tulsa County court procedures, we provide realistic assessments and strategic counsel throughout the divorce process.
Asset Division
Our asset division practice addresses equitable distribution of marital property according to Oklahoma law. We handle complex financial matters involving real estate, business interests, retirement accounts, and personal property. Through meticulous documentation and valuation analysis, we work to achieve fair property settlements that consider both immediate and long-term financial implications for our clients.
People
Todd Alexander
Attorney at Law
With 44 years of family law experience, Todd Alexander holds J.D. and B.A. degrees from University of Oklahoma and University of Chicago. Admitted in Oklahoma (1980) and Texas (1983), he received the Hood Corbitt Award and maintains AV Preeminent Martindale-Hubbell rating. A frequent legal educator, he specializes in complex family law matters.
Questions
What family law services do you specialize in?
We specialize in divorce proceedings, child custody arrangements, paternity determinations, asset division, and probate matters. Our practice focuses on Oklahoma family law with particular expertise in complex custody and property disputes.
How many years have you practiced family law?
Todd Alexander has practiced exclusively in family law since 1980, accumulating 44 years of specialized experience in Oklahoma and Texas jurisdictions.
What approach do you take to resolve cases?
We prioritize amicable resolutions through mediation but maintain readiness for litigation. Our strategy emphasizes protecting client interests while minimizing emotional and financial costs associated with prolonged legal battles.
Are payment plans available?
We offer flexible payment options including retainer-based services. Specific financial arrangements are discussed during initial consultations to accommodate individual client needs.
Do you handle cases outside Tulsa?
While based in Tulsa, we represent clients throughout Oklahoma County and surrounding areas, providing legal counsel for family law matters across the state's jurisdictional boundaries.
How can I schedule a consultation?
Contact us at (918) 744-0201 or through our website contact form to arrange an initial consultation. We provide personalized legal assessments for all family law matters.